They appreciate efficiency and work quickly to find solutions to problems to move forward. Finally, we'll explore what makes ENTJs happy, and what they value in their personal relationships. What purpose is there for having a relationship if you are not benefiting from their insight into your self? I hate that my self. Accusing me as rude when I raised my voice because you are still blind of the fact?! I suggest you look at the magnetic fields of our solar system, and the pulls they have on this planet, and on those material beings (humans) who are affected differently by the various pulls. Im 61, just beat stage 4 cancer, and looking to rebuild a life with some good people as friends, kinda old to learn this truth, but Peterson says 1/3 sleeping, 1/3relationships, 1/3 work. Every now and then a guy with big balls will come through and challenge me. Adversely, ENTJs are protective of their emotions, goal-oriented, hyper-focused, focused on solutions rather than problems, and fiercely independent. As one who has long been aware of my ENTJ pros and cons, for me it is all one big cost-benefit analysis. INTJ here and I had disappointed in an ENTJ that I knew for a long time. I'm an Aries too. If the ENTJ learnshow to get in touch with his inner feelings, sort them out properly and give attention to his feelings? I don't care but I feel like people will see me negatively when that's not what I really mean. Do ENTJs and INTPs get along? Lighten up about this? It is sexist, To assume was every woman wants. Well, you never know about wheel of life do you?! Just throwing this out there. I know ENTJs have a tendency to reject this notion, but just observe how bitterwe can get if someone simply ignored us (though wed dismiss it for the sake of efficiency). Guess Ihave a type;unfortunately, that type tends not to like men. ENFJs are often drawn to INTPs' independence, creativity, and calm way of dealing with crisis. The INTP does not do that. (My art project plans are way too grandiose for my own good.). I work in a male dominated field. As an ENTJ, I feel like you stated whatI wish everyone knew about me. I wish people would listen to what I say instead of how its said. People think I'm cold and calculating but also charming. Lack of ambition. . I think out loud a lot, and will come up with the craziest, not-very-intelligent hypotheticals and ideas. These three categories, not being like everybody else, not being normal and being sick are in fact very different but have been reduced to the same thing', Sexually, the ENTJ is robust, imaginative and enthusiastic. This highlights a potential communication difficulty between INTP and ENTJ. The goal in life is winning. Nobody is ever boring. Spammers will be fried and served on toast. You're like a garbage collector that internalizes residual pollution in the subconscious channels of the mind, almost incapable of a priori originality. ENTJs are extroverted, intuitive, thoughtful, and practice careful judgment in their everyday life. What they really want to dois smash through a problem, hand over the implementation, and move on to the next big idea. AGREE 100%. As leaders, ENTJs are often well-spoken and enjoy organization and order. No matter how many facts you throw at them, its tough for ENTJs to change their mind. Please do not understand this as a throwout attempt, that is defenitely not my wish (I like having diverse discussion partners). When I look at xNTJ eyes, even when you smile or laugh or try to project yourself as likable humans, I see nothing but self-loathing and anxiety. INTPs like that ENTJs are masters of efficiency, capable of accomplishing anything they set their minds to. Its like my teenager voice came back again. At least we have something to pursue. Im a woman ENTJ and an Aries. But as I am an ENTJ and both my best friend and my boyfriend's of 8 years are both INTJs I am going to have to disagree with you in regards to how you believe that Entj/Intj relationships are negative. It's refreshing to be understood and comforting to be able to be straight to the no bullshit point. Like some of you, I tried to be more normal for the last fear years and it worked ok butback fired on my health. Myers Briggs is the only accurate personality typology that I've encountered, and thats in part due to it's specificity, it's the only useful typology, as it can help you understand yourself and others. Other than that, everything else is great for us. Everything else pales in comparison. I'm an ENTJ and a scorpio. Action and thinking are not mutually exclusive. We need more entjs. "Although being optimistic is certainly not limited to one type, there are some types that may be more inclined to, "According to a 2021 survey conducted by Truity, which involved over 88,000 people, ones are the least likely to be, Type Seven and Nine is a common relationship combination on the Enneagram. INTPs and ENTJs share a love for deep conversations and they tend to be on the same wavelength. My main issues are in my career, in a male dominated field. i'm a libra and an entj, my midheaven is in aries , women do hate me a lot must say, i'm way to rational. ENTJs and INTPs have a particular personality trait in common: Intuition. ENTJs belong to one of the two top-earning personality types are known for being bold and decisive. Their open-minded nature lends itself to being able to see both sides of an argument or disagreement easily, making them an objective party in their mediation. My mind is always calculating periods of free time in a day suitable for sex. Your self-worth isn't defined by the level of your concerete and proven success as much as it's defined by the impressionability of your aggrandized self-conceptualization. When these two first meet , their first conversation may seem like they have known each other for years. INTPs prefer to have ENTJs as coworkers, friends, and business partners rather than as romantic partners. Because we are now going to cover in-depth what INTPs like and dislike about ENTJs. They are highly intuitive and feel deeply for people they care about. 8sx. Ah good then it is not me! Every time I'm medicated for it people mistake me for ENTJ. You must bow down to me because of that and no complaining. That is when there is pure confidence because their reasons for doing things comes from them and not the outside. This has earned ENTJs the repuation of hating INTPs. If you stumble across an ENTJ, don't be too optimistic about getting him to open up. The only insight I can give is taken from a platonic relationship with vulture. . Your everyday ENTJ does have an extrinsic locus of control. Jayne is a true ambivert, barely an INTJ, and an Enneagram One. INTP personality types rely on their thoughts, feelings, and emotions to guide them and have a more introverted disposition. Hi there, I am a male but thought could share my thoughts regarding the topic since I am an ENTJ-A personality. I am very introverted, she is as far at other extreme. You can walk up to an ENTJ and say "what if this happened" they'd probably be like "that is unlikely to happen and therefore your question is useless just like you." Why Did I Pick This Book for ENTJs? ENTJs are very protective of their emotions and have a more extroverted approach. I love ENTJs, don't really have time to analyze why right now though..I'll come back to this post tomorrow and edit in why. They are whiners. Asan intuitive thinker, doesnt neccesarily mean I agree with them. They are very dominant in bed. My name isn't Mercedes but I'm a Saggittarius ENTJ and will only drive a Mercedes lmao. I met an ENTJ teacher. Realise this is 2 months old. If I don't text, it's because I don't want to. The easy way they assume leadership. As an ENTJ, Libra, 8w7 female it's rough. Maybe the real fact is THAT because you never try to listened to them in the first place when YOU should listen. Then my mom took all the money. negative and flashy and manuplative ppl are a NO GO!! These signs prize originality and like to be first in everything they do. I am an ENTJ -Pisces. Sigh. Hey any ENTJ Pisces woman want to converse with an INTP Scorpio. Female ENTJ quadruple Sagittarius, Sun, Mercury, Mars, Neptune. Omg. Winning is the only thing I care about. ENTJ here with a sun in leo n moon in virgo lol. I am extremely kind and friendly, but my perosnal feeling is speaking at funeral is different than addressing a conflict or inatructing someone at work or calling out peoples errors. I've always preferred "I" to "E" people as partners because I partly cannot stand the 'showmanship' of "E" types. You just had the fortune to actually find one of us, or who are we kidding, he found you and made you his, because he chose so. Are INFJs Sensitive And Easily Overwhelmed? Actually from what I know I'm the only woman in the southeast United State that do what I do, and would like to say I'm damn good at it. My true nature is to help people, want to support them, optimize work processes. 'Impersonal' is the adjective that best describes an ENTJ's thought processes; 'interpersonal' is something that other people do behind the scenes. We'll close by learning about ten famous ENTJs and what you can learn from them. Is there anything you can think of that you'd be willing to lose a game in order to get? People consider me rude and impatient. INTPs like that ENTJs are masters of efficiency, capable of accomplishing anything they set their minds to. ? If the schedule fits then willingness is secondary. Similarly, they have long-term goals that they strive toward by using their problem-solving skills and natural motivation. We make magic in the bedroom also. Just watch. When INTPs crush on someone, they may try to place themselves strategically in the right place for something to happen. Which will succeed because, well, she's an ENTJ. 1. They may feel defensive and private when it comes to their emotions. I am a pisces with leo moon and capricorn rising and I grew up thinking I was a dark person and nobody understood my jokes so I tried to not make any and loved criminal movies and I never tried to discuss with ppl especially if they cannot understand my taste and starts an argument about it, I really don't fit into very friendly individual now but I used to be a people pleaser until I relised some ppl are not worth the help and some refuse to change. Action orients, but not foolishly. Why do INTPs like ENFJs? Never had a relationship with an ENTJ. In addition, ISTPs have difficulty reading emotions and are logical and factual in their approach to relationships. I enjoyed reading it because of how accurate it was and the fact that I've heard all of that before just adds the cherry on top. I'm INTJ and felt the ENTJ really annoying to actually never wanted to deal with again. While these personality types can have their difficulties, it doesnt mean that they cant work well together. INTPs also admire ENTJs insight and the ability to actually do something about their shared ideas. Even Carl G. Jung, whose work wound up being extrapolated into MBTI typology, believed there was something to astrology and spent time exploring it. I used to learn all these talents that people had in order to fit in.. random things.. all my life.. guitar, singing, learning Japenese, running, drawing, photography, violin.. fucking anything. So I don't share or show them unless they pass some real tests inside. Note: I giggle when one must click the CAPTCHA check box below to affirm "I am no a robot." ISTPs and ENTJs share some essential characteristics: They are direct and honest. And ya, a lot of women hate me too ? Thats another part of their extroversion. (and dislike). I like the assertiveness and tough-luck attitude of many Te-dominants but theoretical conversations with them have to do with practical purposes for them. Also when people love you they want something in return. I can't help but "think" emotions rather than feel them. Prone to being lazy, INTPs benefit significantly from the spark that ENTJs provide to get them on track and actually doing something. They can be self-absorbed; however, they look that way to others because they are highly complex and have contradictory functions. After that I'm saying that since ENTJs typically come off as judgy, i'd expect myself and other INTPs to dislike them. This personality is the most likely to respond to ENTJs' need for intellectual advancement and growth. - Benjamin Franklin. especially those slow ppl oof!! I sometimes even take the consecquences over my shoulder and be proud of it. This highly logical and decisive type will suddenly get so insecure, anxious and defensive that he won't know what to do with himself. Wanna know why I suppress my feelings? Both INTPs and ENTJs have some common traits, such as being analytical thinkers who like to question everything they come across. Actually I have a co-worker who is ENTJ and he is very good at doing certain things to make sure he fits in/gets along/gets more powerful. Besides, ENTJ women are the highest earners; not only do they outearn women of other personality types, but they make even more . I also had some major learning issues if not for father's barbaric upbringing I probably would not have developed "survival"techniques. And as an ENTJ I am the most lihgten up worker in my team for an instance. As I understand it: - ESTJs have the best sense of what is correct, until proven otherwise - INTJs are the "smartest"*, until proven otherwise IME that "default" sense is pretty common in both types -- and that can bother some people. INTPs and ENTJs are both intuitive thinkers, so their communication is excellent for the most part. I try and not let it get to me. I am abig fan of the INTJ personality type. What's a girl to do? The thing about what people do when they feel hate is not look at themselves. I think that was my first taste of depression. 2- the thing with relaxing and lightening up is not really natural for me, even ifi do relax physically my brain never stops, I'm an over thinker and sometimes I have to release those thoughts outside in order to check their validity and fulfill to answering them efficiently. Yet, when hes with me he seems docile and Im the one whos aggressive and on. Interesting post, despite the fact I've found it somewhat confusing. My mother thinks I act and have a taste like a man. Happy exploring! special kind of life. Only a true genius realizes that nothing is certain right? An ENTJ is just Carolyn Burnham at American Beauty, shouting, 'This is a $4,000 sofa, upholstered in Italian silk. Feels good to know there are others out there :). #aries. INTPs often wear their heart on their sleeve. Adversely, ENTJs are protective of their emotions, goal-oriented, hyper-focused, focused on solutions rather than problems, and fiercely independent. Wow!!!!!! We dont give up. I'm seventeen and an ENTJ girl. You're materialistic and shallowall about food, money, sex, and social statusand this makes you an impossible person to be around if, heaven forbid, one entertains abstract or impractical interests. To claim you can handle your own personal growth is just silly. Really ENTJs?! Sexuality is another important area which brings out the Fe shadow of the INTP. These personalities value absolute honesty as they work their own no-holds-barred track through life - it takes a lot of effort for them to communicate tactfully and with charm. Something not a lot of ENTJs need help with, I would imagine :p. In Aristotle, there's links between God as the "Unmoved Mover," and astrology, with the planets mediating God's "motions" down to Earth. I go for that length just to tell him which one way he should take so he will be better at least in student's eyes (I am student, I know better) and make everything fair, but he refused instead. Oh, one of the really good reasons to be with an ENTJ is that the well developed ones are a good lay. In fact, the boys accept me better and don't ignore me. Are ENTJs Good In Bed? With this in mind, I take actions that can be modified as needed. I can generally describe the relationship with the top 3. This site uses cookies to keep you logged in if you register. INTPs enjoy it when ENTJs show patience towards them. It may not display this or other websites correctly. I will say that the insecurity and jealousy is on the nose. For the first time, I found a job, where I "could" contribute my countless talents and ideas. I don't think I have seen other Cancers on here as ENTJs. Cancer is one of the Cardinal signs check out this description that does sound pretty ENTJish :), Cardinal Signs Us ENTJ'scan do anything. Yep, everything was a flaw and fakery until I reconnected with my inner child. Just my two cents! 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